Dating a black dude
We spent the following days hanging out, walking the beach, but still keeping things platonic.He had met and pursued a local Brasilian girl who was beyond sweet. His White European friends dared him to go and talk to that Black Brasilian girl sitting on the beach, who was really a Black American girl in disguise. Just two kids from Jersey traveling abroad that happened to bump into each other by stereotypical mistake.But he was persistent, followed up by Skyping me that evening re-extending his invitation. A few days later, he was headed to a nearby island and invited me to come along to explore.I was looking to get away from the city, so I accepted, of course, booking my own hotel room, and arriving days late on my own schedule.After listening to his tried pick up line in American-accented Portuguese, I cut him off and bluntly asked him in English where he was from.
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And frankly, I just wouldn’t let my guard down to the idea of hooking up with a white American guy when there were so many Afro-Brasilian men in my surroundings.
I was prejudiced, or in kinder words had a preference, for brown beautiful men.
” After watching the sunset together, he invited me to meet up with them to salsa that evening.
I wouldn’t give him a definite answer, as I had articles to finish and work to do.
Eventually, our vacation ended and he headed to the south of Brasil to start his new job. It had been almost six months since we had first met, and I certainly had changed.